Personal ministry is one of those slightly hackneyed phrases that exists without much specific shared understanding of what it means. Is personal ministry chatting with people? Is it praying with them? Is it a kind of amateur therapy that Christians offer each other?
What is personal ministry all about?
Here’s a working definition:
Personal ministry involves forming a loving relationship with another individual with the aim of mutual growth in Christian understanding, obedience and service of others.
We’ll unpack this sentence as the article continues, but first a few negatives to help us move in the right direction:
- Personal ministry is not counselling as such, although it will obviously involve that. But that is not the essence of it. Counselling tends to be problem-centred and foster a culture of crisis. If ministry is seen as counselling, this can lead to people feeling they can only talk seriously to others when there’s a problem to address. It leads only to problem-solving rather than real growth. There’s a place for solving problems, of course, but there is more to Christian growth.
- Personal ministry is not merely practical help. Dropping around a casserole; helping financially; helping with the housework—these are all wonderful acts of kindness. All these will be part of a loving relationship you have with someone, but they are not the essence or sole purpose of personal ministry.
- Personal ministry is not something ‘super-spiritual’, but it is spiritual. ‘Ministry’ is a fancy word for ‘serving’ someone, for loving them. And because we are Christians, and believe certain things about God and the world and each other, and what life is about, then a key component of our love for other people will be a desire to see them grow in their understanding of God, in their obedience to him and in their own love and service of other people. And so personal ministry will include helping them out practically, and offering them a listening ear when they have problems, but it will go much further than that. It means wanting them to grow more like Christ, wanting to see them become what, as humans, they are meant to be.
In other words, personal ministry is something that we can all do. No, it is something that we are all called upon to do. Each part should do its work, says Paul. Each member should speak the truth in love to each other, should encourage and build up each other, should pray for and seek the good of each other.”
…..Tony Payne, Matthias Media